I originally wrote this post with the
intention of cleaning up the clutter around my house in order to create a work
space. Look I have two sheds and two
empty bedrooms now that I am an empty nester.
In my home I have surrounded myself with nice art, heirloom pieces that
my mother and grandmother gave me and wonderful memories of my life. But there are other things taking up space
too.
There’s a movement on the rise called
minimalism where the goal is to simplify your life in order to live the life
you’ve dreamed of. I know I’m not a
minimalist because I wonder how getting rid of magazines, books, shoes and
stuff is going to give me the life I REALLY want. There's no way I can fit even half of my life in one of those small houses.
Well, it’s much more than that, right? For me I think the clutter holds me back from
really taking THAT GIANT LEAP FORWARD – being catapulted into action. I’ve been living the same life for a very
long time and I’m quite cozy….or am I?
There have been times when I want to just give all my belongings away
and get the heck out of Dodge…but I’m still here.
I’ve been reading some good articles
about cleaning up the clutter or simplifying and all the time I’m laughing,
rolling my eyes, shaking my head yes, saying “no way!” and then reading some
more. I am aware that by reading and
reading I am not doing anything about my clutter except learning about how
others got rid of their sentimental items and survived the ordeal. Did I someone say catapult?
I know that downsizing is hard for
everyone. Most of us have spent years saving and collecting things that add
meaning to our lives. That being said,isn’t
it funny how we hold certain things near and dear to our hearts like my bead
stash, my books, my magazines and my shoes?
Hey, the list goes on and on…
I realize that I don’t even have time
to read all those books or use most of the stuff in the shed. Did I mention that I have two sheds, yes TWO! Call a crane operator to get me off my butt
and into action already. The truth of
the matter is that I don’t have time to read because I have a very busy life
and a demanding job and making time to clear the clutter seems
overwhelming. Plus there are some things
I am absolutely not going to part with at this time in my life. I’m just not gonna do it.
I found some good suggestions to my
dilemma on the World Wide Web some even included suggestions on how to simplify
your life and maybe even make a buck or two in the process. I’ve found in this review of information that
the minimalism/simplification lifestyle has a good community of wonderfully
supportive people willing to share their experiences. This tells me that it’s not easy for anyone,
right? We all need a hug every now and
then. Hey I’m not a minimalist….I’m
miles away from that but I just have too much stuff and realize that a call to
action is necessary.
I want to share a few of the articles
that I read~
- Man vs. Debt is a great website whose mantra is Sell Your Crap…Pay Off Your Debt…Do
What You Love!
- This site and many of the articles keep me grounded
knowing that all that “stuff” doesn’t bring me total happiness. It’s the people in my life; friends and
family that bring me infinite joy.
(and my dog Riley) Lots of
helpful hints for selling on Craigslist and Face Book.
“The only man who sticks closer to you in adversity than a
friend is a creditor.”
-Unknown
- Miss Minimalist shares real life experiences on
her site. Some of these stories are
SO funny and of course I see myself in a lot of them. Read this week’s post from
Agilborder. She kicked her clutter
where it counts!!
- Calling in help and being candid with family members
is a great suggestion. Making a
few bucks in the process of clearing the clutter isn’t too shabby either.
Rather go to bed with out dinner than to rise in debt.
I've realized that
making room for things that are presently in your life is important too. Having room to meditate is important to maintain health and well being. Having space to work on my bead work is
important because it inspires creativity.
Having a comfortable space for family and friends to unwind and visit is
important. This has helped me to realize
the purpose for this exercise ~ PUTTING
PEOPLE BEFORE POSSESIONS. Now THAT motivates and excites me!!!!!! If I do one little thing I can move closer to the BIGGER things that I
want to accomplish.
Friends I ask you, “What is standing in
your way from making room for growth and prosperity? Please post a comment….your words mean a lot
to me.
Karen